50 Fun Solo-Dating Ideas to Add to Your Self-Love Bucket-list!
Updated: Oct 4, 2022
“Love yourself first, and everything else falls in line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world.” - Lucille Bell.
First, lemme just say --- go off Lucille.
Self-love isn’t an option. It’s a requirement that you truly need to fulfill, otherwise, it’s going to be difficult to feel those warm, gushy feelings such as happiness, peace, joy and bliss.
Love isn’t just a noun --- it’s also a verb.
You cannot love yourself simply BY saying you love yourself. You have to express that love through action.
What’s the best way to love yourself through action? By dating yourself.
Similar to how you give love to a best friend or a lover, you should also provide yourself with that same love, respect, kindness and adoration.
And, similar to how you would cultivate a relationship with others by SPENDING TIME WITH THEM, you should also do the same and spend time with yourself.
Don’t know what to start? I got you --- here are 50 solo-dates that you can take yourself on:
Go to a winery
Go to a dance class (sensual heels dance, hip-hop, salsa, etc)
Spend the day in a city near you
Go to the movies
Go to the mall and go shopping
Go to brunch
Go get yourself a self-love promise ring
Take yourself on a picnic
Go grab dinner at a fancy restaurant
Go to a sip and paint
Go on a nature walk
Book a fun fitness class
Treat yourself to a mani-pedi
Go thrift shopping
Go on a long drive and blast your favorite music
Go book yourself a hotel room for the weekend
Go to the spa
Grab a book and head to a local coffee shop
Go to a cooking class
Go to a museum or an art gallery
Book yourself a photoshoot (or have your own DIY photoshoot)
Sign up for a floral arrangement class
Go watch the sunset
Take yourself to a sex store
Go to a sunflower farm and pick some beautiful flowers!
Go to the beach
Go skydiving (indoor or outdoor)
Go to an arcade
Make a vision board by yourself
Attend a play
Go to a festival
Go to a pottery class
Have an indoor picnic
Take swimming classes
Take a walk around the park
Do yoga outside
Go axe throwing
Take yourself out for ice cream
Make a cool craft
See a comedy show
Go strawberry picking
Go do karaoke!
Go to a record store and buy a record!
Go skating (either outdoor or indoor)
Ride a hot air balloon
Go to a street fair
Go to a botanical garden
Go plant shopping
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Comment Below: Which solo-date are you DYING to take yourself on? Would love to hear from you!